Boredom, Tired, Weary, You Bore Me to Death

If your partner ever refers to you as boring it is a sign that things are not well in your partnership. No one wants to think they are boring, no one wants to think their loved one is boring. Unfortunately it happens.

Avoiding this situation is normally not difficult as partners respect, care for and love their counterparts. It is those time when one partner becomes so preoccupied with work, play or charitable endeavors that they might not pay enough attention, often enough or carefully enough to their partner.

From the side of the ignored partner it takes a long time for them to sink to the realization that their partner is a bore. Generally that comes after many bumps along this down hill slide. At some point they realize that to avoid being considered a bore themselves, since they are being ignored by their partner, a "boring" tag is placed on the other partner.

The solution is simple and heard often. Keep the partner active in your life in most aspects. It is not hard but it does take conscious effort to keep them centered as the main focus of your life and sharing that importance with them.

Always,

Gay