Thursday, July 30, 2009

I Don't Love You Anymore - Update

If you followed the story of Roy and Samantha it becomes clear that both partners want to find a way to restore their prior relationship. Their lives are much like many who are caught up chasing the dream of success.

It is often difficult to keep focus on family matters when that part of your life is less than 1/2 the time you spend working. If you remove sleep time Roy and Sam get about 4-5 hours a day as a family if Roy gets home on time. Compare that with a minimum of 8 hours to expected 9-10 hours a day at work. With his current work schedule it is probably 3-4 hours as a family. That is Sam's concern, that is Roy ignorance.

Two partners who agree on a shortfall in their relationship have the tools to solve the problem if they want. Two partners who do not agree or if one partner places a lower value on something than the other partner it will be difficult to fix.

Roy and Sam found a missing key to keep their marriage alive and together. Roy is committed to the plan, Sam is waiting to see reality compared to words.

As Always,

Gay

1 comments:

  1. i like your website. I am helping so many people with these problems and also my husband doesnt understand. I serve god.period.
    thrashedntrashed.com was designed by me because thats what people tell me what they feel like no matter the brokeness of the realtionship. re:work,marriage well as long as there are people we will always have a concern. Your doing something positive.

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