Today's Events

Divorce seems to once again be a topic of interest. For that reason two new articles have been published on Ezine dealing with divorce. One is, "How Do I Stop Divorce When My Spouse Says- I Don't Love You Anymore, We Need to Separate" and also, "4 Ways to Live Through a Crisis When These Words Are Spoken,I Want a Divorce."

Both address the reality of divorce as to cause and how to view your future but as importantly, what to do for yourself today. If divorce has ever visited your doorstep you will understand the attempt to bring rationalism to an irrational event. Just remember you did not initiate the divorce, maybe you did but that is another discussion, which makes it hard for you to understand why your mate wants a divorce.

This is a drastic measure driven by some event, feeling, or goal in which you are not a party. Trying to meet your spouse in a common place is probably not going to happen since you are in the hurt place, they are in the "finally did it" place.

Though they feel some relief at telling you what they want there is some degree of guilt carried inside by your soon to be Ex. Time will be your ally to move forward with resolution of the request to divorce and the ability to talk to your spouse without hostility, anger and disgust. The big looming question you will have to address at some point concerns if you want to attempt to save the marriage. A lot of marriages can be saved if that is a goal, it depends on the cause, the fallout and future trust.

Always take care of yourself first as that allows other items to be address and handled.

As Always,

Gay